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Olo Free to be huge and wee, Size fantasy, Size philosophy February 25, 2019March 2, 2019

The Bottoming Book

Elle Largesse discusses how Dossie Easton’s books have helped her explore her feelings about size fantasy.

24 Feb 2017

Published by Olo

Published February 25, 2019March 2, 2019

Undersquid says:

February 25, 2019 at 20:45

Interesting. I’m not a switch and was born a Dom, but can relate to a few things Elle mentions in her post. The idea of nurturing the one I’m dominating always gives warmth to my heart.

I’m incapable (unwilling, really) of saying “I can take you…” etc., to anyone. I only want to ever say, when the time comes, “I have taken you, I can give you back… and I never will.”

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1. Olo says:
  
  February 25, 2019 at 21:19
  
  If you haven’t read it, Elle posted a long exploration of her size journey in December.
  
  It is the certitude of the taker that reassures the taken.
  
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  1. Undersquid says:
    
    February 26, 2019 at 08:14
    
    Thank you for the link, Olo. I’ve had my own experiences with size dysmorphia, but have only touched on them briefly on my blog.
    
    I’ve never found my certitude to reassure anyone. In fact, my firmness of mind had absolutely no effect on anything but my own unwavering belief in the truth. A truth that matters to no one but me.
    
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